Re: FN-FORUM: WAY OT

date posted 27th October 2006 15:24

True love is like the sea...
None of us are afraid when we see the tide go out. Why? Because we know
it's inevitable that it will come back in again.

Let him have his break with your blessing and see if it's real or not.

Ju.

Mark Hutchinson wrote:
> Hi Claire,
>
> How old are you? Interests? Do you have a photo? Perhaps when your free you
> could contact me off line....lol, only kidding!
>
> I was in a relationship with a lovely girl for 6 years and experienced the
> same thoughts as Phil's detailed below, broke the relationship up. Whilst I
> wouldn't say I regretted it as such "what if" has always been in the back of
> my mind ever since.
>
> It could be doubts and he just dosent know what he wants or it could be he
> wants out and is just too scared to admit it or doesn't want to hurt you
> i.e. he thinks this will be easier for you to swallow.
>
> It's times like this when you need to be strong and let him do what he needs
> to, all you can do is tell him how you feel. If you try and make him stay
> chances are he'll resent it and want to move forther away.
>
> Good luck
>
>
>
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> -----Original Message-----
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>
>
> Hi
>
> I would say that he's losing interest in the relationship because it's not a
> challenge, i.e. it's too easy for him and he's become complacent and is
> wondering whether there's something better out there for him (or that he
> deserves better). Sorry if that sounds harsh but it's really what I think.
>
>
> My advice is to say yes to the 'break' and go off and do your own thing for
> a while, chances are he'll soon realise what he's missing, then when you do
> get back together try and keep that freshness going in the relationship.
>
> Good luck!
>
> -----Original Message-----
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> Plumtree
> Sent: 27 October 2006 11:48
> To: FN-FORUM / [EMAIL REMOVED]
> Subject: FN-FORUM: WAY OT
>
>
> Hi.
> Sorry about how far OT this is just I wanted to ask a question knowing there
> are quite a few males on here! My boyfriend and I have been together for two
> years (September) and he tells me now he wants to have a break. What in
> English does this mean? Just this is my first long term relationship and as
> far as I knew things were OK, although I could tell something wasn't quite
> right his end of things for whatever reason (i was beginning to think he
> didn't love me anymore!). Hes told me it's so he can sort his head out and
> decide what he wants in his future, but why does he need to break up the
> relationship for that? He assures me he still loves me and cares about me,
> It doesn't make sense to me! He's quite a shy guy so there isn't likely to
> be anyone else on the scene, I just wondered if any of the guys out there
> could shed some light for me! LOL, bizarre topic I know, but TIA, I hope!
>